Does <3 Really Lasts FOREVER?
I have been wondering if there is such thing as “I will love you forever”. And if there
really is, how come a lot of people still don’t believe in this magical,
romantic phrase? Is it because they have a bad experience about loving
and they come to curse such words?
If you believed in this phrase and or already told it to
someone, how can you be so sure that you will love that person forever knowing
that you don’t know what the future holds?
Seriously, a lot of couple keeps telling this on each other, but as soon as they fight and the conflict cannot seem to re-mediate anymore, they ended up separating. Some couple resolves the problem while some does not.
The common reason why we said these words to our beloved is
because of our current emotional feelings towards him/her. The sudden emotional
burst which hypnotizes one to said something without having a careful thought. Love
as an emotion may affect our reasons and decisions and being in love is the
ultimate hypnosis we can give and receive. We set no boundaries just for the
sake of loving and being loved. They said that love is blind, that’s why we
accept the other no matter whom or what he/she is. This seems to be true in
most cases and this proves how strong we indulge in the power of love.
Loving someone forever may seem impossible for others.
Because along the way their feelings may fade so is love. But don’t get
mistaken, love is different from feelings. Feelings fade and love doesn’t. It’s
just a matter of interpretation of one’s definition of love since a lot refers
love as feelings which shouldn’t be. Other people said that their love for
their partner faded already. Asking themselves what should they suppose to do?
It is better to keep in mind that love is a "verb".If you
find your love to your partner fading away, it is a good chance to love him/her
again. Start loving your partner. Acknowledge, affirm, understand, accept,
appreciate, recognize, consider, sympathize, believe, and trust him/her. That’s
what love is all about. It is an action word with trust being the important component of it.
Forever isn’t just a word, but a place. A place where two
people journey to. So when love sends you there, don’t just say “forever". Be there.
